The Why of It

There are times that I go into a fast food restaurant and I simply can't enjoy the experience - not the food, nor the company.  Why? Because it is simply dirty!  I feel like I stick to the seat; the fountain thingies look like they have mold spots... YUCK!  I don't go back!  In the meantime, I'm not focused on who I'm with or what is being said because I'm checking every bite of my food!

The goal for a restaurant should be to create an environment that keeps you wanting to come back - much like our Haven!

For a business, their purpose in creating this positive environment is simply a bottom line number on some financial spreadsheet.  Our purpose in creating a Haven is to experience what God had planned for us when He created families all the way back with Adam and Eve.

God removed physical stuff as a distraction as we talked about last time, but today I want to focus not on the what (distractions of clothes, food, etc.) but on the why (to experience God's intention/design for families).

God knows that we get caught up in these destractions even as Believers who trust God to take care of us.  All the more for those who are unbelievers or who are new in their walk with God.

So don't worry about these things, saying, 'What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?' These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need. 

(Mat 6:25-33 NLT)

Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone. 

(Col 4:5-6 NLT)

Our goal in creating this Haven is not only to create a place that our family want to be, but most importantly to create an environment where they can experience God.

In embracing the mission of cultivating the environment of your Haven, you are asking God to take you personally on a journey where you will come to know and understand His desires for you and your family.  The removing of distractions is a means of helping draw your family closer to God's picture.

What do you think was a part of God's design for family?  Are your family dynamics based more on God's design, personal experiences growing up, or the world in general?  Spend some time asking God to help you see HIs design.


Read and meditate on Genesis 2:8-25.


Lord, I pray that you will make clear to us what your design is for family.  Help us to model for the families with whom we come in touch, your incredible love and that they will be drawn into the family of God.  In your name I pray, Amen.